The Magic of Making Up

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This is another Free Special Report from Jim DeSantis, a retired TV News Editor and Pastoral Counselor! You are welcome to give it away to someone who may appreciate it. Be a friend! Give it away! If you really want to get your ex back, I know that this Special Report can help you accomplish just that. It contains highlights of the complete “Magic of Making Up” course that has helped hundreds of people get back together even when it seemed impossible. These techniques are not the usual psycho-babble you commonly find on line. They were developed for real folks like you and are proven to work again and again. Of course, we cannot guarantee you will get an ex back who truly has moved on, but, if the flame still burns, these tips will fan that flame into a bonfire of love between you and your ex love. 1
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How To Tell If Your Ex Really Wants You Back! If your ex is showing you a little bit of interest, or seems more interested in going out and spending time with you than before, or if you notice signs that your ex is trying to flirt with you, then it's okay to be a little hopeful but you need to avoid jumping the gun. These are definitely very common signs that your ex is interested in getting you back. But even if you want to get back with your ex, you should not simply jump into things. The best way to play things is to play hard to get (in moderation), which is probably what your ex will best respond to anyway. If you simply jump into things full force, then you may find your ex pushing you back again. In fact, if your ex is giving indications that he or she wants you back, then the odds are, it was you playing hard to get that led to the renewed interest in the first place. Usually when you break up with your ex, or, he or she breaks up with you, there is a natural level of missing one another, or longing to get back together. This is especially true following a relationship of a year or longer. Your ex is probably going to miss you no matter what, because of how many memories were shared together during this period of time. But there are other emotions that come into play, including past regrets. If you are wondering "does my ex want to get back with me" the odds are that your ex may be thinking the same thing for the same reasons. Sometimes, when an ex shows interest again following a break up, it may only be a game. They may see that you love them, and they may simply be trying to get attention, without actually intending to get you back. So, unless your ex really seems genuinely interested in spending time with you, they may just be passing the time because they have no other prospects on the horizon. And ,worst of all, they may see this as a way to get revenge for some perceived wrong. This is why it is important not to jump the gun, and why you should focus on evaluating the situation before you act on it. This “get even” syndrome is fairly common. All the more reason to get a feel for the situation before you act. 2
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In reality, if your ex does want to get back with you, playing hard to get (in moderation) is the best scenario because it will prevent you from getting hurt if your ex is not really serious about getting back with you. “Order and download The Magic of Making Up here! If you are not back together with your ex within 60 days… or you are not absolutely delighted for any reason… You will receive a prompt and courteous refund." A Confident Attitude Works Wonders! Although a breakup with a boyfriend or with a girlfriend can be really depressing, it does not need to mean that the relationship is over. Even if the breakup should suddenly leave you feeling confusion and loneliness, you may still feel really eager to heal the wounds and jump right back in to that relationship with your ex. If you learn how to react following a break up, and you become aware of how not to strain the relationship even further, then getting ex back will be easier than ever. It can seem hard to keep up a cheerful attitude throughout your day following a breakup, but it is believed by relationship experts that an optimistic and confident attitude can go a long way. Here are some of the ways that the right attitude will work wonders. Keep your confidence. Rather than going around feeling gloomy, try to find ways that you can keep yourself occupied and happy. Keep the depression out of your demeanor. Allow your ex boyfriend or girlfriend to know that you are strong and that you are more than capable of handling such an emotional situation, and also that you are capable of surviving on your own as well. 3
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Remain socially active. Surround yourself with well wishers, positive attitudes and good friends. Show your ex that people appreciate you, and that they love having you around. As more people begin to feel good about your presence in their lives, your ex will begin to see you in a completely new light. He or she will realize that yes, you are a good person that they simply cannot afford to let go of. This is one of the best ways to let your ex notice you in a new light. Maintain a good appearance - Another solution to "How can I get my ex back?" is not to let your appearance reflect your situation. You need to pay attention to every detail of your looks, including your clothes, your make up, your hair, your stride, your shoes and even your voice. It can be hard to act happy or to take care of yourself following a bad breakup, but this is one of the best ways that you can let your ex know that you are doing just fine, and do not need to beg for his or her sympathy. You are going to get back together like adults who are mature and responsible if you are going to get back together at all. “Order and download The Magic of Making Up here! If you are not back together with your ex within 60 days… or you are not absolutely delighted for any reason… You will receive a prompt and courteous refund." Going Slow Wins The Race! If you are wondering how you can get back with your ex love, the first thing that you need to understand is that this is a very delicate situation. Your feelings may be hurt, and their feelings may also be hurt - And it is important that you are careful about how you handle the situation, otherwise feelings may be hurt even worse. 4
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Here are some key points that you need to consider when it comes to figuring out how to get back with your ex love. 1 - First and foremost, what was it that you did in order to cause the break up? Breakups do not happen completely out of the blue, so there is probably a really good reason behind the action even if you are not immediately aware of what it is. The first step in this process has to be to figure out what went wrong, whether or not it could have been prevented, and how can you can fix it now that you know what it is. 2 - If the break up with your ex love was entirely your fault, then the first thing that you need to do to help rekindle things is to let your ex girlfriend know that you recognize what happened. Let them know that you recognize that it was your fault and that you are sorry for your actions and the unintended consequences. 3 - You should continue to socialize with other people, even though you are trying to court your ex again. Just because you and your ex are not in contact right now, that does not mean that you need to cut yourself off from the rest of the world. You should date others, or at least go out and have some fun with your friends. It may even work to your advantage for you to cause some jealousy in your ex partner if you really do want to get them back. 4 - Show your ex that you have moved on, but you also need to show her that you still care about them. This is the most ideal way to eventually get her back. By letting her know that you have not completely moved on, and that you still have feelings for them, will make you appear more mature and more desirable as well. 5 - Finally, it is important that you work hard to become friends with your ex love. Friendship will build trust and will help to bring you closer to one another than you have ever been. At some point you should ask them why the relationship fell apart, but be casual about it rather than appearing desperate. They will either admit that it was a mistake that the two of you broke up, or will let you know that the break up was for the better at that moment in time. Once you have an answer, you can proceed from there. 5
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“Order and download The Magic of Making Up here! If you are not back together with your ex within 60 days… or you are not absolutely delighted for any reason… You will receive a prompt and courteous refund." How to Get Back Your Ex Love in Five Steps! If you really want to learn how to get your ex love back, there are a number of steps that you can follow to have more success than if you just wing it and hope for the best. Breakups happen, but they do not necessarily have to be forever. Here are five steps that will allow you to subtlety let your ex love know that you're still interested in being a fixture in their life, so that you can potentially rekindle things in the right away. 1 - Start by reaching out and contacting them. But, do not be wimpy about it nor arrogant. Just reach out and let them know subtlety that you are still interested in being a part of their life. 2 - Drop them an e-mail to keep in touch. If you do not find casual, easy going methods of communication with your ex, you will never be able to get them back. Staying in touch is absolutely vital, but keep it to casual messages like "Hey, what's up?" rather than overwhelming their Inbox with love poetry. 3 - Stay away from committing to another person you may be dating. Sure, your ex love may be understanding enough to let it slide if you begin to peruse other "prospects", but if you want to get your ex back, don't appear that you have found a new love. 4 - Remember the little and big things. Part of learning how to get your ex love back means treating them like they are the most special person on the planet. 6
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One of the easiest ways to do this is by remembering the most important anniversaries and dates in their life. Send a card on their birthday, and let them know you're thinking about them but in a harmless and positive way. 5 - Call and text, but use discretion when communicating. You should not be afraid to send your ex love a text message, or drop them a line here and there. Uncertainty is something that should be avoided in life and love, so call your ex and let them know what's going on that they may be interested in knowing. This way they will know where you are and what you're doing and not have to imagine that you're out having fun without them with another love interest. Let your ex know you care, and that you still think about them. If they know that they are still in your thoughts so frequently, it will contribute heavily to how quickly they will want to rekindle things with you. There is no exact process or science to the process of learning how to get your ex love back, but there are some pretty clear cut methods that will steer you in the right direction. Obviously maintaining contact and communication is absolutely vital to the rekindling process, but do not over do it, otherwise you may scare your ex love away. “Order and download The Magic of Making Up here! If you are not back together with your ex within 60 days… or you are not absolutely delighted for any reason… You will receive a prompt and courteous refund." Patience and Friendship Win The Prize! Many people yearn for the good old days and dream of rekindling a lost romance. Many are interested in giving a tumultuous relationship another chance. If this is you, follow the steps detailed below. 7
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1 - Keep in mind, first and foremost, that patience is a virtue. Do not rush anything, but rather start things off with simple comments whenever you encounter your ex. This can be as simple as waving or just saying hello. When these encounters happen, you should maintain eye contact so that they know you are communicating with them and not with somebody else, but do not let it go much further than this. 2 - Try slowly implementing conversation again, making an attempt to talk to them when you can. Remember that you should keep your conversation brief, and rather basic in nature. Do not reveal too much, because mystery is actually quite appealing. Also, if you run into your ex love at a party or a social gathering and your friends come into the room, you may consider stopping the conversation with your ex and focus your attention on your friends. This will let your ex know that, while the communication between the two of you is nice, they are not your highest priority right now. Don't be afraid to flirt a little bit here and there as well. 3 - Keep things fresh. Make sure that you look good, and smell good, and that you keep things changed up on a fairly regular basis in order to keep your ex interested in you. You should put some thought into your appearance because maintaining your good looks will show confidence and respect for your appearance and which is something that most people of the opposite sex find quite attractive. 4 - Don't be afraid to make a few honest compliments to your ex every so often. You are going to want to make sure that your ex feels good any time they are around you. Talk about the good times that you spent together, bringing up only good memories from the past. Help them to remember some of the best highlights from the former days of your relationship and enjoy the reminiscing while simultaneously working to get them back. Try to become your ex's friend first and foremost. They will feel more comfortable with you and, if they want you back, they will eventually let you know. Be a true friend, open up to them, show them a nice time. If their feelings for you are rekindled, they will let you know. Take things slowly and don't act too needy. Instead, just play it cool and let them come to you. If things are meant to be, they will be, and you will get your ex love back through the process. 8
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“Order and download The Magic of Making Up here! If you are not back together with your ex within 60 days… or you are not absolutely delighted for any reason… You will receive a prompt and courteous refund." Saying You're Sorry And Showing Your Sensitive Side! Well, there’s no guarantee you’ll get back together, but the odds tilt more and more in your favor when you do things right. Show your ex love how much you miss them, and how sorry you are. Then, pay attention to how they react. If saying you're sorry only make them angry or they throw away your small making up gift or something dramatic like that, change your tactics until you find that something that they respond positively to. If flowers or cards frustrate her, for example, maybe that’s because it’s easy to pick up the phone and order flowers or buy a card someone else wrote. Try putting yourself in her shoes and try to figure out something more appealing. Buy a blank card and write your own verse in it. It doesn’t have to rhyme, in fact it’s better if it doesn’t. Try to honestly express how you feel. Or pick flowers and present her with a bouquet you put together yourself. A common complaint among women is that men aren’t thoughtful. Were you thoughtful during the relationship? Now you might be wondering, how can you get your ex girlfriend back by being thoughtful? Well, every positive thing stacks up, making it easier and easier for her to come back to you. Don’t expect things to happen right away, though. As for an ex boyfriends, it will take some imagination. You really have to know your man and what will impress him and surprise him. For example, I love powder coated cream puffs. Give me a half dozen as a make up gift and my heart would melt on the spot! Something that only you and he know about would make an excellent ice melter! 9
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If you spent your former relationship rarely doing thoughtful things, or you only did them in the beginning, your ex will probably doubt the things you do now. Just be patient, and keep up your efforts. Don’t appear frustrated or angry. Do the thoughtful things because it feels good to make them happy, not because you’re working toward a goal. Can I get my ex girlfriend back by dating other women? If it’s been a long time since the breakup, and you’re still working on being thoughtful, a casual date seems harmless and may make her wish she was your date, but go too far and it could backfire. Can I get my ex girlfriend back if she has a boyfriend? The odds are against it, but if you can show her that she’ll be happier with you than the new boyfriend you’ll have a good chance. Being thoughtful will go a long way toward showing her that. Even if it seems hopeless, don’t give up. If it appears she’s moved on, still send her a card you wrote just wishing her a great week. But don’t look as if you have any expectations. Your thoughtfulness might really impress her. Can I get my ex boyfriend back if he has a girlfriend? This is probably the hardest situation to overcome. Not only is it difficult to be alone with him if he has someone else, he’s focused on the new relationship. You’re part of the past, and not a priority. Being nice right now is crucial. You have to make him see how wonderful you are and how much he’s missing. 10
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